By Anne K, Recovering Exaholic

Sad Girl

Are you an Exaholic? If you're asking yourself that question, then chances are you've come to the right place. Are you having a difficult time moving on? Have thoughts of your ex been an obstacle to your growth? There are varying degrees of the experience of an exaholic.  For some of us, pain is the predominant feeling at the moment. We're not able to concentrate too well, and we may be depressed. Some of us just don't know where to begin. We've spent a great deal of time and energy on our ex, and find it hard to re-establish control over our own lives. We feel alone. Some of us are single, some are divorcees, and some may be divorcees with children. If only there was a pill we could take that would solve all of our problems right away.

Well, until that pill is available, it's going to take hard work. It won't be easy. And for many of us it will hurt. Emotional pain can be far more difficult to heal than physical pain.

This site takes a different approach than some of the superficial websites that may even seem to diminish or make light of  what we're going through. Most of us have had enough of being told that we'll get over it and that everything will be ok. For us, it's just not ok right now...

...which is why is here... to generate healing for and by exaholics themselves. While there is an experts section, so much of this site is also non-professional. That means we're relying on ourselves. We understand each other and can relate like no one else.

You're Not Alone... Break-ups Hurt!!
"Are you an Exaholic?"

If you’re asking yourself that question, then chances are you’ve come to the right place. Are you having a difficult time moving on?

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