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  • 41dreams replied to the topic :( in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 1 minute ago

    But here is the twist again confusing by tomm he will be mad at no response ? I’ve gone out of my way to make space for 3 months havnt seen him, because I didn’t feel like me running into him or getting the urge to drive there was helping, because I was chasing all he had to do sit and wait? Now that I e stopped going his way he has been meaner at…[Read more]

  • Kimbel replied to the topic :( in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 7 minutes ago

    @41dreams, I just read your story, I didn’t realize he’s been doing this on and off for 2 years. I am going to tell you something that I used to tell my EX when he would tell me that his ex-wife kept asking him to come back home…that she’d change and would be nicer to him and not so demanding and demeaning….I told him more than once “a…[Read more]

  • 41dreams replied to the topic :( in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 7 minutes ago

    Yes I’ve actually asked him many times are you coming home?.. His reply yes, do you really mean what you say?.. His reply yes,,, or it will be complete opposite I will recieve full wrath, he wasn’t the kindest before he left and hadn’t been to me for long time, I’m embarrassed to say and admit but he has always been Dr heckle/Hyde and can be at…[Read more]

  • mia replied to the topic Good things in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 10 minutes ago

    Kimbel-I have told you this before- I can tell you have a great big heart and that makes you beautiful in my book. Continue to believe when others say nice things and compliment you. I know it is very hard to do this at times- but please, please do not let this breakup determine your self-worth. I have said this before and will continue to say…[Read more]

  • Kimbel replied to the topic :( in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 13 minutes ago

    May I suggest something? If you did respond to his text perhaps you could ask him the exact thing you just said to me. “If you dont want to be with be why do you keep contacting me”? You’re weak like we are all weak, because we love(d) then and have a very soft spot in our hearts for them. My EX never treated me horribly until the day he broke…[Read more]