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  • @lucycharlotte commenting on your initial post, as I guy it sounds like he’s going through a period of denial/confusion. I’ve always felt giving it space helps a person reflect on themselves and the situation. I know it’s worked for me, but it’s how you both react after or during that reflection that may dictate the future of things. Hope it helps.

  • Well, it’s only been eight days now, but I can definitely feel a difference. It seems to
    be smoothing me out a little. Also, had a great session with my therapist two nights ago,
    which really helped as well. From what I’ve read, this medication takes about a week to
    reach a steady state in the bloodstream and about four weeks to reach full…[Read more]

  • Emma started the topic Day 5 in the forum Counting Days Forum 22 minutes ago

    Hi, my name is Emma and I’m an exaholic. It’s been 5 days since I initiated contact with my ex.

    Almost finished in work and I’ve a long weekend ahead of me so looking forward to it but dreading the reappearance of the little devil on my shoulder. Hopefully this will keep it at bay:

    “{Lord – or whoever it might me}, grant me the serenity to…[Read more]

  • I’ve had an off/on relationship since the start of the year.After the first time he dumped me I organised a holiday with my mum, then we ended up getting back together. I get back from a holiday only to be dumped three days later because “I’m not ready to be a boyfriend and have no feelings for you, I thought I did but I was wrong, it’s me not you…[Read more]

  • test-monkey replied to the topic Day 6 in the forum Counting Days Forum 36 minutes ago

    Congrats on day 6!! Go lucky!!