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  • Thanks man….yeah…pretty much said all I wanted to I guess :( biggest fear is I will not find someone again…silly as that sounds. And also that if I do find someone I will compare them with the ex….

    The ex was very beautiful. Like…VERY beautiful. :( I see other girls and I still think “she isn’t as good looking”….I know that’s…[Read more]

  • Vann replied to the topic She got in touch in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 3 minutes ago

    Thanks for the encouragement! It does give me hope to see how far people have come, it is an awful struggle tho. Stay here and vent all night if you need to get it out of your system if it will make you feel better. I’ll be here :)

  • Ah…sorry to hear that Vann :( it does get better..I promise you! but it’s a hell of a journey :( in time you also will learn to say no…remember, she is your ex for a reason…no matter how deep your love, it did not work then and it will not work now mate :(

    Ugh…I can’t stop thinking of her now….I just want to unblock her so bad…[Read more]

  • Booradley replied to the topic Mixed Messages. in the forum LGBT Forum 25 minutes ago

    This sounds familiar to me, too. I was with my ex for almost 4 years. We were engaged and looking for a house together. Before that it was push/pull over and over and over. Break-ups and pushing me away until I ran back, then she’d get back together with me. This was like a high of “winning” her back and this cycle continued for years. I was…[Read more]

  • Vann replied to the topic She got in touch in the forum MAIN Daily Check-In 26 minutes ago

    I understand about the’s been 8 months since my breakup(we were together for five years) and I still can’t even think about being with someone else. The thought of it makes me feel like I’m cheating..stupid I know. It’s very lonely but I can’t force or fake something I’m not feeling. I think it’s wonderful how you were able to resist her.…[Read more]